A question I’m often asked by men and women interested in male chastity is what is…

Chastity Keyholding?

As the name suggests, it’s simply what we use to describe the situation that exists where a man is locked in a chastity belt and someone else has the key – meaning, other than physically cutting or breaking himself out of it, he is wholly dependent on her for access to his penis and the privilege of having an orgasm.

Actually, to be clear about this, anyone can hold the key and anyone can be locked in chastity – but because heterosexual male chastity is by far the most common kind of chastity, this is chiefly what I’ll be talking about in this article (just bear in mind everything I say applies pretty much equally, no matter what your sexual preference or orientation).

What is the Purpose of Chastity Keyholding?

To divine this, we first need to understand male chastity itself, and that’s no mean feat. After all, why would someone consent to be locked in a chastity belt and be unable to orgasm or have sex without first being unlocked?

The full answer is quite complex and has many different shades and nuances all or some of which might apply to different men and women at different times, but as a broad and simple answer we can say male chastity is for many couples a fantastic way to improve their relationship by adding a bit of spice to their love lives and increasing the amount of physical and emotional intimacy they enjoy.

It might seem strange to say denying male orgasm can have this effect on a couple’s lives, but it’s true, nevertheless, and this has been proven over and over again by the many, many men and women who have embraced the male chastity lifestyle.

Now, you might think the same effect could be achieved by the man simply displaying a bit more willpower, but it’s more complex than that.

Not only does chastity keyholding physically act as an obstacle for the man’s orgasm, but it adds a profound and deeply satisfying psychological aspect to the practice, too.

You see many men like to have the illusion that they have no choice and that their chastity and orgasm denial is being “forced” upon them. It’s just a mild game of power-exchange, but it has a powerful effect on your man, and a wonderful knock-on effect on the rest of your relationship.

Chastity Keyholding and Single Men

Unfortunately for many men who have the burning desire for male chastity and orgasm denial, they are single and don’t have anyone they can ask to hold their keys.

To someone on the outside, this might seem unimportant and somewhat inconsequential, but to a man who craves it, it’s a huge dilemma.

After all it’s hardly the kind of thing a man can ask his friends, family, colleagues and neighbours to do for him, is it?

This is why many single men opt to use a chastity keyholding service – where a woman will hold a man’s key as a commercial agreement. There are even websites dedicated to matching men who need a keyholder with the keyholders themselves.

On the face of it, this might seem really quite strange, but if you think about it, it’s no different from dominatrixes who perform what many men deem to be an important service in regard to other kinks and fetishes (and something’s only kinky when you, yourself aren’t into it, after all).

In Conclusion

Chastity keyholding is an essential part of male chastity if the man is to feel properly chaste and the woman to exercise and enjoy her true feminine power.

Even single men can enjoy male chastity if they’re prepared to go to a private chastity keyholding service and pay a small fee for someone to hold his key securely and discretely so they, too, can enjoy the delights of the male chastity lifestyle.

Look, you’ll read a lot of hype and nonsense about male chastity, and really what you want is sane, serious and realistic information and advice so you can make those all-important choices, right?

So if you’re SICK and TIRED of reading all the obviously made-up Blogs and forum posts about male chastity and strict chastity keyholding then you need the TRUTH about it from a genuine lifestyle couple who are living it 24/7.